Sunday, December 22, 2013

Zwahlen Family Christmas Letter



According to Yahoo, 2013 was the year of Miley Cyrus, Kim Kardashian, and twerking.  God bless you if you don’t know who and what those are.  While the Zwahlen family will probably remain off Yahoo’s list of cultural embarrassments for the foreseeable future (although with Roy you can never be sure), there was much to celebrate and be grateful for in 2013.

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Abby’s year begins and ends with starting Kindergarten.  The much-anticipated day finally arrived and she has loved every minute of it.  Her teachers have seemed to notice her enthusiasm and they keep finding new ways to challenge her both mentally and socially, including being pulled out for advanced academics with different teachers.  Of course, she doesn’t let it go to her head (that’s our job).  She spends her days planning her upcoming birthday party and doing extra chores to earn money for her recent toy obsessions.  She loves her dolls, making jewelry, writing and illustrating novels, and everything about music.  She even finds small ways to surprise us, including recognizing someone’s needs, praying for them, and then going out of her way to help them.  Needless to say, we are very proud... and Roy is getting a paternity test.  


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Sam permanently traumatized his parents by having emergency surgery this year.  Everything is perfectly ok and he has no long-term issues (except for maybe a fear of doctors and the hospital… definitely Roy’s son).  Of course, Sam’s year involved a lot more than surgery.  Sam has been going to preschool, taking Rec classes, and epitomizing the 3-year-old emotional rollercoaster.  Sam still makes fun of Roy but is getting much better at it.  He loves wrestling with Dad, building towers for his Angry Birds, and teasing and trying to embarrass his parents.  We discovered that Sam is perfectly comfortable walking up to relative strangers and sitting in their laps.  Of course, this comfort only applies to people over 4 feet tall.  He still terrorizes everyone his age.  Sam asks lots of questions each day and loves to be involved in conversations.  He is as quick to give a kiss as he is to wipe off the kiss you just gave him.

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Lydia is a delight.  She has started talking, a lot (see Abby 4 years ago).  She loves to ask people about “Cars”, “Elmo”, and “Bo on the Go”.  If she feels she has been ignored too long, she will say “Cars” and unsuccessfully try to hold back a smile.  Lydia loves to swing her body side to side until she gets complimented for looking so pretty, help comb hair, and read books while cuddling up on a lap.  She sweetly says ‘baby’ and then growls like a monster.  A perfect friend for both brother and sister.  She loves to build, play dollhouse, color, steal things from Sam and run away laughing.  She especially loves Dad’s iPhone.  Lydia is very good at reading people and will give a wave, hug, kiss, or lay-upon as needed.  She loves to make people laugh and will say or do something funny to get the laugh.

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Michelle spends her time keeping up with kids.  Along with shuttling kids around to various events, she is in the rotation to teach preschool, a music class,  and a class for children at our church.  Michelle also joined the PTA and has become the head honcho for all things box tops, points, and every other pyramid scheme out there to bring money into the schools.  The school loves Michelle.

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Roy continues his international travel as a result of his recent promotion to Associate Counsel assigned to the International Department.  This year’s international travel included India and Malaysia.  There were plenty of stateside trips as well to San Diego, Chicago and New York.  He still enjoys the science and policy niche very much and is looking forward to the challenges and opportunities a new year brings.  In the little free time Michelle allows him to have, Roy loves to play video games, watch movie trailers, and mess around on his iPhone.  Of course, most of that is done while he is hiding in the bathroom (he has to hide from Michelle and her to-do list and all 3 kids who want to steal the iPhone).

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!  May 2014 bring you happiness and joy!

Gingerbread House

We made a townhouse-style gingerbread house one day after school.  Surprisingly, all the kids did well not gorging on candy while we made it.  Lydia is our little candy-lover and she even had fun participating without eating too many treats.




Below, Abby is working on the candy river.


Do you like the lollipop shooters on the roof?  Sam is very serious about defending the home. :)



Happy kids showing off their house, path, river, and candy car (you can see a little square of color in front of Abby's knee--jelly beans for tires and tootsie rolls for the car).


Time for crazy faces!



Snow Days!

We had 3 snow days a couple weeks ago and they were so fun!  I love to see my three kids having so much fun together.  The snow started on Sunday (see my girls in dresses?) and church was cancelled.  We enjoyed playing in the snow and drinking hot chocolate during the 2 days of cancelled school too.  These pictures make me happy.










Monday and Tuesday snow fun:





Abby and Sam made snowball launchers by building a snow wall around their plastic rakes.




Sunday, December 8, 2013

A Short Catch-Up

Lately, the youngest enjoy taking a shower together.  It is so loud in the bathroom with their shrieking and hollering.  Their friendship has really blossomed since Abby started school.  In fact, Lydia especially enjoys grabbing one of the toys Sam is playing with, running away while giggling, and having to speed up a little more as soon as Sam comes scream-playing after her.


Lydia making her cupcake at Sophia's birthday party.  Of course, she added even more sprinkles after the picture was taken.


The other day, Abby was singing Christmas songs.  She has such a great voice and really loves singing.  After a minute or two, she asked me, "Why does this song say, 'It makes Chelsey sing, oh!'?"  In case you were wondering, she was singing "Angels We Have Heard on High".

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Cute Kiddos

Here are some favorite phone pictures from the last week or so.  Most of them don't have a story, but they capture where we are right now.  We are grateful for 3 happy, healthy kids who love each other.  As I was listening to these three play trains the other day, it was magical.  I hope there's a place in heaven where there are constant sounds of children laughing.  


Abby the pilgrim.  We met her for Thanksgiving lunch last week.  You can't see much of it, but she was wearing a cute pilgrim hat. 

Do you see the curls Miss Lydia is sporting?  LOVE them! 

Abby wore her BYU pin last week.  Never to be outdone, Sam and Lydia had to take a picture too.  Sam told Lydia, "Be silly!"  Of course she performed. 


Lydia has opinions on her outfits.  Check out the pjs.  She insisted on wearing the shorts on top.  Funny girl.

Trampoline fun!  

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Immaculate Conversation

I just saw that "Teen Beach Movie" was put on Netflix (it's the new Disney TV movie from the summer).  Naturally, I emailed Roy about it.

Michelle's Email to Roy:
I am embarrassed to admit that I saw it was new on Netflix and got excited.  Will you watch it with me sometime?

Roy's Response:
I did too.  I tried to get Abby excited last Friday but she was agnostic.  I would feel more comfortable watching it with Abby.  That way when I say, "Yeah I saw that movie..." I don't completely immaculate myself.  :)

Michelle's Response:
do you mean emasculate?  :)

And I think we should just say it's a Mom & Dad choose night tomorrow and we pick it.  She loved the preview we watched this summer.

Although I am now trying to figure out how you can immaculate yourself...

Roy's Response:
haha.  That's probably the best spelling mistake I have ever made. :)  I am immaculate!

Sunday, November 17, 2013

A Few of My Favorite Things


  • We taught Abby how to play Mancala today before church.  I coached her and she played against Roy.  She caught on really quickly and would look over at me for a nod to make sure she was doing it right, but she was doing great.  Especially when she beat Roy.  The first game.  It was beautiful!
  • When I give Sam a thumbs up, he puts his index finger up in response.
  • When I make the ASL sign for "I love you" to Lydia, she puts up her two fingers in a peace sign back to me and says, "you!"

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Capturing the Moment

Abby:

  • Lots of friends have loose teeth or have recently lost their teeth.  Poor Abby got the late bloomer genes from both parents and doesn't even have a remotely might-be-wiggly-sometime-soon tooth.  A couple weeks ago, she was feeling really sad about it and was having a heart-to-heart with Roy.  He was being very understanding and sympathetic when she loudly declared, "But I've been waiting for a loose tooth ever since I heard about loose teeth!"
  • We were talking recently about how lucky Abby is to have so many friends.  I had helped in her class the day before so I finally knew the names of all her classmates so I went through that list and she declared everyone either a best friend or a best, best friend, even Anthony who is afraid of girls (and every time she tells me that she says, "Can you believe it?!?  He's afraid of GIRLS!").  Then we went through the list of everyone else that I could think of: family members, church, the neighborhood, people we seem to run into at the park occasionally, etc.  Everyone was ranked either best friend or best, best friend.  "Wow!" she said when we were done.  "I have SO MANY friends!"  And here's the thing about Abby that I absolutely love.  She is is a loyal, loving friend who will always remember you.  I love this girl!
Sam:
  • I wish I had a video camera constantly trained on my boy.  He says funny stuff all the time.  Sam has the same quality as Roy or driving you completely crazy but making you laugh so hard you can't be mad.  
  • Sam picks up on funny facts and shares them at odd moments.  For example, tonight at dinner, Sam said, "Termites are insects."  Someday you might hear him say these other favorite facts: "Aliens don't exist."  "Monsters don't exist.  Only in the dark.  That's where monsters exist."  "Cows make milk.  I like cows."  Or while cuddling with Roy, "You have a big nose."  Or while sitting on my lap and quickly pushing on my stomach, "Your tummy makes funny noises."
  • Sam has been in the throes of 3-year-old emotions lately.  He's had a lot going on so I can't really say these moments of tears that can go quickly to either buckets of tears or laughter are really a shock.  Luckily for him, he's done a good job with telling us he loves us more often.  Sam also enjoys a good "GROUP HUG!" even though he tells you after, while wiping off any kisses we managed to squeeze in there, "You're squishing me!"
Lydia:
  • We have the following conversation every day.  I'm not kidding.  It's been going for probably 2-1/2 months now.  And yet it makes me laugh every time.  It starts within a minute of dropping Abby off for kindergarten:
    • Lydia: Abby?
    • Me: Abby's at school.
    • Lydia: Oh, man!
  • Then on the days we drop Sam off at preschool, we pick up the conversation again:
    • Lydia: Abby?
    • Me: Abby's at school.
    • Lydia: Oh, man!  (Short pause)  Sam? (but when Lydia says Sam it comes out Ham...so funny)
    • Me: Sam's at preschool.
    • Lydia: Oh, man!  (Short pause)  Daddy?
    • Me: Oh, man!  (Short pause)  Mommy?
    • Me: I'm right here.
    • Lydia: Oh, man!
  • I play this funny game with Lydia as we are going up for bed and nap.  I say really slowly, "I....love...." and then both of us start pointing at each other "you, you, you, you, you!"  She already loves to get in the last word.  She has to slide in "you" once we get to her room.  I love this girl!

Saturday, November 9, 2013

A Little Catch-Up

It's times like this (perfect weather, happy kids who actually want to pose for a picture) that we all really miss Abby while she's at school.  Here are our pumpkins from Halloween!


Abby got a special envelope from Mor Mor with 56 Box Tops.  She was so excited to open a letter just for her!


While Sam had the flu (round 1) the girls got to take a bath together.  There was giggling, storytelling, and water everywhere!


Sam has turned into a good little artist.  He drew our family and I had to snap a picture.  Oh yeah, the two little ones on each corner are Mom and Dad.  They're babies.  He laughed so hard when he told me.


Roy was at a conference this week so we had breakfast for dinner.  I made huge pancakes and gave the kids a bunch of toppings to use to create monsters.  Sam made a monster with lots of eyes.  Abby made a doll face--notice the curly hair (eggs), the nose (bits of ham), mouth (strawberries), and eyes (blueberries).



Lydia and Sam helped me do some baking the other day.  They agree that the best part of baking is licking the spoons, especially when chocolate chips are involved.


Coming up soon: Why we should constantly have a video camera going...

Sunday, October 27, 2013

Life in Random

Here's what we've been filling our lives with the last 3 weeks, but in random!

Trunk or Treating/Halloween Celebrations:


Lydia just learned to balance on Roy's feet while walking :) 

Day-to-Day Fun:
Abby all dressed up for black and white day 

Hill rolling! 





Sam wanted to take a picture for Roy...until he realized that I couldn't be in it with him.  We had to send Roy the picture below later to prove that Sam was feeling happy that morning 


 Lydia loves to comb her hair and 2 times last week, wore a headband (that she insisted on putting on herself)

 Lydia leading me to a different playground

Long Weekend in Williamsburg:

 Fun at the Bouncy House!





Pumpkin Patch:





 



Leaf Jumping:









And More Halloween:


One little monkey jumping on the bed!

Abby, the Red Ruby Princess